THANK YOU FOR BEING ...
 
DISPATCH: I Will Miss Her Every Day - Gordon Roddick - Posted on October 16, 2007 from Anita Roddick.com At 6:30pm on Monday, 10th September, someone reached into my heart and turned out all the lights. In an instant that funny, vibrant woman who was my wife, lover and closest friend was gone. With the passing of our beloved Anita we first feel an enormous rent in the fabric of our world, a world she adored and fought gracefully but fiercely to preserve and improve. The tributes pouring in from around the world remind us of how uniquely fortunate we are to have had Anita in our lives. We are all, in some fashion, her family and her friend. Whether you knew her as intimately as some of us did, or admired her from afar, or perhaps never heard of her until today, the world you live in (and that your children and grandchildren will live in) is a different, better place for her having been in it. A piece of Anita is in that part of you that reads a label to find out if your mascara was tested on rabbits, or your lotion contains organic, fairly traded ingredients. Anita is in that part of you that says “I’m beautiful the way I am.” She is in that part of you that thinks “I have a great, crazy idea, and I’m going to make it a reality.” She is in that part of you that tries to avoid buying clothes made in sweatshops. She is in that part of you that feels enraged at injustice and compelled to add your voice to the choir of dissent. She left us far too soon, we can all imagine her aged 94 marching to 10 Downing Street to demand the decommissioning of the Trident programme, or in the jungles of Brazil bringing back healing botanical secrets from the Amazon tribes she fought so hard to protect, or shooting the rapids on a wild river in the Yukon like she did the month before she died. She loved to quote Dorothy Sayers: “A woman in advancing old age is unstoppable by any earthly force.” Indeed some of us believed that, despite her health concerns, if anyone could finagle her way out of mortality, Anita could. If Anita were reading this, she’d tell us to quit the sycophancy and say something funny. Well, Anita told the best stories, and lived perhaps the most unlikely, hilarious, inspiring, and experience-packed story ever told. It can be hard in our grief to muster a laugh, yet those who spent time with her know that our tears are frequently interrupted by laughter when we remember moments with her. When she passed she had begun to work with Sam and the company on the issues of human trafficking and I am very happy that the company has wholeheartedly embraced the issue. Anita laughed every day. She laughed a moment before she left us, and she couldn’t have scripted a more elegant and Anita-esque exit. She would demand that we stop with all the tears and think of something deliciously, irreverently risqué. To laugh, and especially to act, is the least we can do to begin to repay our debt to her and to honour her great life.  As Anita loved to say: “The job of a citizen is to keep his mouth open.” So we ask only that you take your spark, go out and do something. Engage. Learn. Be fiercely kind. Have a child’s sense of wonderment. Tell someone you love them. Write a letter to the editor. Demand a better media. Contact your representatives in government. Talk about sex shamelessly. Eat pasta. Give change to a homeless person. Buy organic. Donate to or volunteer for: Greenpeace, Amnesty International, Reprieve, The Coalition to Free the Angola Three, or the cause that most connects with your heart and soul. In a film to be shown at Anita’s memorial some of her last words to camera were to exhort all of us as individuals to “just do something.” I can only echo that in her memory. I will miss her every day.  Gordon  Anita Roddick.com
 
 

 
CLARISSA PINKOLA ESTES (author of Women who run with the wolves) "Within every woman there is a wild and natural creature, a powerful force, filled with good instincts, passionate creativity, and ageless knowing.  Her name is Wild Woman, but she is an endangered species.  Though the gifts of the wildish nature come to us at birth, society's attempt to "civilize" us into rigid roles has plundered this treasure, and muffled the deep, life-giving messages of our own souls. Without Wild Woman, we become over-domesticated, fearful, uncreative, trapped." Clarissa Pinkola Estes

 

RANDOM QUOTES FROM HANK...

Go without a coat when it's cold; find out what cold is. Go hungry; keep your existence lean. Wear away the fat, get down to the lean tissue and see what it's all about. The only time you define your character is when you go without. In times of hardship, you find out what you're made of and what you're capable of. If you're never tested, you'll never define your character.

We are hated. We are covered with spit and piss. Life sucks.

You want some art? Come and get it.

I believe that one defines oneself by reinvention. To not be like your parents. To not be like your friends. To be yourself. To cut yourself out of stone.

Keep your blood clean, your body lean, and your mind sharp.

Scar tissue is stronger than regular tissue. Realize the strength, move on.

Don't do anything by half. If you love someone, love them. If you hate someone, hate them until it hurts.

It's hard to get along with people. As much as you try to like them and accept them as individuals, it becomes difficult because they keep getting out of line and wasting your time.

The ones who don't do anything are always the ones who try to put you down  Henry Rollins

...."Teone, you can use the quotes. Thanks. Henry"

 

 

Arundhati Roy

Peace? excerpted from Arundhati Roy's acceptance speech of the Sydney Peace Prize

 It might seem ironic that a person who spends most of her time thinking of strategies of resistance and plotting to disrupt the putative peace, is given a peace prize. You must remember that I come from an essentially feudal country - and there are few things more disquieting than a feudal peace. Sometimes there's truth in old cliches. There can be no real peace without justice. And without resistance there will be no justice. Today, it is not merely justice itself, but the idea of justice that is under attack. The assault on vulnerable, fragile sections of society is at once so complete, so cruel and so clever - all encompassing and yet specifically targeted, blatantly brutal and yet unbelievably insidious - that its sheer audacity has eroded our definition of justice. It has forced us to lower our sights, and curtail our expectations. Even among the well-intentioned, the expansive, magnificent concept of justice is gradually being substituted with the reduced, far more fragile discourse of 'human rights'. read the entire piece here
 
 
Mikhail Bulgakov
excerpted from The Master and Margarita - my all-time favourite novel
 
Early in the morning on the fourteenth of the spring month of Nisan the Procurator of Judaea, Pontius Pilate, in a white cloak lined with blood-red, emerged with his shuffling cavalryman's walk into  the arcade connecting the two wings of the palace of Herod the Great. More than anything else in the world the Procurator  hated the smell of attar of roses.
 
The omens  for  the day were bad, as this scent had been haunting him since dawn. It seemed to the Procurator that the very cypresses and palms in the garden were exuding the smell of roses, that this damned stench of roses was even mingling with the  smell of leather tackle and  sweat  from his mounted bodyguard...
 

Jaco Pastorius

 

December 1, 1951 – September 21, 1987

The meteoric rise and fall of a musical giant. Jaco's music makes me weep with joy and sorrow all at once.

Some snippets can be heard on youtube. Do yourself a favour and take a look/listen. click here , here and here

  

Joseph Campbell   

The way to find out about happiness is to keep your mind on those moments when you feel most happy, when you are really happy - not excited, not just thrilled, but deeply happy. This requires a little bit of self-analysis. What is it that makes you happy? Stay with it, no matter what people tell you. This is what is called following your bliss.
 
God is a metaphor for that which trancends all levels of intellectual thought. It's as simple as that.
 
'Follow your Bliss!'

 

Milton Erickson  

 Erickson is famous for pioneering indirect techniques of hypnotherapy, but his shock therapy tends to get less attention, perhaps because it is uncomfortable for us to hear such uncharacteristic stories about an inspirational and gentle healer. Nonetheless, Erickson was prepared to use psychological shocks and ordeals in order to achieve given results:

When the old gentleman asked if he could be helped for his fear of riding in an elevator, I told him I could probably scare the pants off him in another direction. He told me that nothing could be worse than his fear of an elevator.
 
The elevators in that particular building were operated by young girls, and I made special arrangements with one in advance. She agreed to cooperate and thought it would be fun. I went with the gentleman to the elevator. He wasn't afraid of walking into an elevator, but when it started to move it became an unbearable experience. So I chose an unbusy time and I had him walk in and out of the elevator, back in and out. Then at a point when we walked in, I told the girl to close the door and said, "Let's go up."
 
She went up one story and stopped in between floors. The gentleman started to yell, "What's wrong!" I said, "The elevator operator wants to kiss you." Shocked, the gentleman said, "But I'm a married man!" The girl said, "I don't mind that." She walked toward him, and he stepped back and said, "You start the elevator." So she started it. She went up to about the fourth floor and stopped it again between floors. She said, "I just have a craving for a kiss." He said, "You go about your business." He wanted that elevator moving, not standing still. She replied, "Well, let's go down and start all over again," and she began to take the elevator down. He said, "Not down, up!" since he didn't want to go through that all over again.
 
She started up and then stopped the elevator between floors and said, "Do you promise you'll ride down in my elevator with me when you're through work?" He said, "I'll promise anything if you promise not to kiss me." He went up in the elevator, relieved and without fear - of the elevator - and could ride one from then on.
 
 
 

SATISH KUMAR    

In 2007 I was very fortunate to meet the inspiring and most eloquent Satish Kumar during his recent visit to Australia.

The Ethos Foundation hosted some of Satish's lectures, and I was asked to make some videographic clips for their website, whereupon Satish agreed to allow me to interview him about his amazing peace-trek.

The following piece was captured on the hop,... and I was enthralled by Satish's life-long quest to bring common sense and sustainable life practice into our global consciousness.

Satish is the editor for Resurgence magazine and is the founder of Schumacher College in the UK, a place for deep learning and for experiencing an ethical, humane, sustainable and ecologically empowering way of being.

http://www.resurgence.org/

http://www.schumachercollege.org.uk/ 

   

you can view the video interview here


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